
I use the term "birth plan" loosely as I know that birth is a lot like life and not something that can be controlled or easily dictated. We make plans.... life happens. So let's call this my "birth preferences". I didn't write a "birth plan" with Amelia as my midwives and doula were so thoroughly aware of my wishes that there was no need to record them on paper. This time around it will necessary to have something in writing so that my doctor and nurses know what I would want.
My Birth preferences ListI understand that labour and birth are unpredictable and ultimately I want the health and safety of both baby and I to take precedence. When possible I request that procedures be explained thoroughly (benefits and risks) and also, I would like to be included in the decision making process. Below are the items that are important to me. Your help with these is very much appreciated. All of the requests are for a
normal labour, birth and postpartum period.
Labor- I would like to have as natural experience as possible - freedom of movement, intermittent monitoring and a saline lock instead of an on going IV.
- Being in the hospital, I know that main medications are available. Please accept my request that medications not be offered to me. For personal reasons, I am striving for an unmediated labor and delivery. If I desire medication or an epidural, I will be the first one to ask for it!
- I would like the room as dark as possible.
Birth- Please to not direct my pushing with counting or yelling "push" to me.
-I strongly prefer a tear to an episiotomy
- I would like to be an active in the birth as possible, including bringing the baby up to my chest.
Baby care- Please delay weighing until after baby has nursed.
- Please preform all newborn procedures on me.
- No erythromycin eye ointment, please.
-No vitamin k injection (unless bruising or trauma occurs).
Cesarean (Should this be required)
- Please use double layer sutures when repairing my uterus.
Well there it is. Hopefully is it clear and succinct. I didn't want to be too wordy or sound like some kind of granola hippie (although I kinda am) :0)Now all I can do is mentally and emotionally prepare for the marathon ahead.